Something needs to change. You don’t have to figure it out alone.
I’ve had times when I knew something needed to change, but couldn’t yet say what. I’ve started again, questioned work I was good at, and wondered how the experience I’d gathered could be useful in a different life. The bills and responsibilities carried on while I was figuring it out.
Those experiences shape how I work with people. I’m interested in what brought you here, what you’ve already tried, and what you might be overlooking in yourself. Sometimes it helps to have someone listen closely, ask a question you haven’t considered, and stay with the uncertainty long enough to understand it.
If you’re at that point, you’re welcome to bring the unfinished question. We can look at it together and explore what feels worth investigating next, at a pace your life allows.
WORK WITH THOMI
A conversation with someone who has been there
You can be good at what you do and still wonder whether you want to keep doing it. You might want a change and worry about what it could cost. Or simply feel that something isn’t right, without knowing how to explain it.
I’ve had to reconsider my own direction more than once—through creative work, corporate life, building businesses, and starting again. I know that having experience doesn’t mean you always know what comes next.
When we work together, you don’t need to arrive with a tidy explanation. We start with what is on your mind, including the things that seem contradictory: wanting something different and needing the stability you have.
I listen, ask questions, and help you look more closely at what you’re experiencing. We consider what matters to you, what you’re already capable of, and what your circumstances allow.
You don’t have to settle everything in one conversation. We work towards a clearer understanding and a manageable next step. Afterwards, I’ll send you a written summary so you have something to return to.
You leave with a written summary and a useful next step.
ONE SESSION
A closer look at something that’s been on your mind.
You may be weighing a career decision, wondering what to do with your business, or feeling that something in your work needs to change.
We take time to understand what feels difficult, what matters to you, and what you still need to find out. You don’t need to have it neatly worked out before we talk.
Afterwards, I’ll send you a written overview of what we explored and a manageable next step—something to check, try, or consider further.
THREE SESSIONS
Time to explore, try something, and talk it through again.
Some questions need more than one conversation. You may be considering different work, building something of your own, or wondering whether things could improve where you are.
We begin by understanding your situation, including what you need to protect: income, time, relationships, and responsibilities.
Together, we identify something useful to investigate or try between sessions. When we meet again, we look at what happened, what surprised you, and what that changes.
You have someone to think alongside as your understanding develops. We build towards a practical working plan, with written summaries you can return to and adjust as you learn.
